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    Quote Originally Posted by bada View Post
    We don't do pron in any form in this relationship.

    But I find it sad that a woman can be ok with watching lesbian porn and still consider herself hetero, yet if her husband watches gay porn she'd be concerned

    I think it's all about social conditioning... and over labeling. I think a hell of a lot of men and women call themselves hetero, or gay, or bi, when really they're just attracted to different *people* and different things at different times in life. For women it's a lot more socially acceptable to kiss a girl or get into lesbian porn while claiming the straight label, yet for a guy the equivalent is completely unacceptable. It's sad. Wouldn't it be nice if people didn't feel they had to live up to the expectations of a label.
    I consider myself bisexual not straight and dp knows this he has watched a few of my girl/ girl hook ups and listened to crush frustrations.

    It wouldn't concern me if he watched it so much as raise some questions if it became regular and he enjoyed it. Doesn't mean I'd accept him any less just something I'd want to be aware of. I cannot offer him a male body so I won't react as much to that as I would to him reacting to and enjoying watching another female body in a situation that intimate.

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    And to add to my last post, I think this issue has got a lot to do with being raised with assumed heterosexuality. An interesting read from the bubhub archives - Were you raised with assumed heterosexuality?

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    Quote Originally Posted by bada View Post

    But I find it sad that a woman can be ok with watching lesbian porn and still consider herself hetero, yet if her husband watches gay porn she'd be concerned
    But this was the point of the question in the first place. I needed other opinions, i did post again after a few answers and stated that I realized that there's no need for me to be concerned and I don't have an issue. It's a bit confusing, but I've changed my tune thanks to these lovely ladies!

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    Quote Originally Posted by InBetween View Post
    A straight man watching gay porn? And still says he's straight? Yeah right.

    Gay porn doesn't worry me. It's the stuff they do with animals, kids and fetishes that does.

    You could say the same about a 'straight' woman watching lesbian porn.

    Your not suggestion that gay porn includeds animals, pd.philia and fetishes are you??

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    Quote Originally Posted by WorkingClassMum View Post
    You could say the same about a 'straight' woman watching lesbian porn.

    Your not suggestion that gay porn includeds animals, pd.philia and fetishes are you??
    I read that as saying gay porn is completely different to fetish porn etc. not that they were the same.


 

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