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    Quote Originally Posted by InBetween View Post
    Sorry, when guys talk about gay porn they're talking about guy on guy.
    yep, i'm a lesbian. so for a prospective partner to want to watch p.orn involving a guy would really hurt me.

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    I think women like girl on girl porn coz a woman's body is sensual and attractive. It also reminds me of how it feels to be well pleased and aroused.


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    Girl on girl if done tastefully/ well is a HUGE turn on but I don't really watch porn tbh more that if a scene in a movie/ series comes on (game of thrones as an example) I'm more comfortable with that and more likely to keep watching and enjoy it.

    If I caught my partner watching any porn I'd be pretty hurt. Guy on guy isn't his thing though so it would be girl girl and he has me so I should be enough..

    ETA: one of my ex's was bi so for him to watch gay porn wouldn't have concerned me (I'm not a guy so I can't offer that)
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    Quote Originally Posted by hopefully2 View Post
    I think women like girl on girl porn coz a woman's body is sensual and attractive. It also reminds me of how it feels to be well pleased and aroused.


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    Your first reason for liking woman on woman stuff is because you find a womans body sensual and attractive. So this is ok in your mind, but on the other hand your husband watching the same thing of his own sex, you would have a problem that? Can I ask why? Is it because it is more taboo, or you trust your own feelings type thing, but can't trust why he would want to watch it? (sorry if Im off the mark, just wondering why and question open to anyone who wants to answer for me)

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    I don't know why to be honest. Maybe it might be coz my dad is gay that I wouldn't be happy with it. Might be coz I think my husband is such a bloke it would be wrong. Seriously I need to think it through. Good question. Has me stumped.


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    if i caught him watching girl on girl p*rn, i would be a bit upset but it wouldnt be the end of the world.

    if i caught him watching man on man p*rn, i would be questioning his s*xuality.

    the boyfriend knows how i feel about p*rn and im sure he wouldnt watch it around me. we dont live together

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    She is talking about her perspective, being with a woman. So for her straight porn would be worse than her partner watching girl on girl.
    And I was referring to my husband, who is a man. The OP also refers to not feeling comfortable about her DP watching guy on guy. So this thread is about guy on guy being gay porn. (Sorry, I can't tell lesbians by their screen name). So in this situation, it's guy on guy. And yeah, if I found him watching gay porn I would be questioning his sexuality.

    As DH was out the back with some male friends this evening, I asked them what they considered gay porn was. All of them said guy on guy. When I ventured lesbian they said that they didn't consider that gay but fantasy.

    *scratching head* Their answer, not mine!

    For me as I'm a woman, watching lesbian porn is gay porn and I wouldn't be watching it. Come to think of it I wouldn't watch guy on guy porn either. Overall, I think porn is pretty boring actually.
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    TBH I'd be more upset if he was looking at straight or girl-on-girl; it would bring out the green-eyed monster in me.
    But I'm not really cool with watching any porn- when someone's mine they're with me, eyes and all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CallaLilly View Post
    TBH I'd be more upset if he was looking at straight or girl-on-girl; it would bring out the green-eyed monster in me.
    But I'm not really cool with watching any porn- when someone's mine they're with me, eyes and all.
    How I view it too and had this conversation tonight

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    We don't do pron in any form in this relationship.

    But I find it sad that a woman can be ok with watching lesbian porn and still consider herself hetero, yet if her husband watches gay porn she'd be concerned

    I think it's all about social conditioning... and over labeling. I think a hell of a lot of men and women call themselves hetero, or gay, or bi, when really they're just attracted to different *people* and different things at different times in life. For women it's a lot more socially acceptable to kiss a girl or get into lesbian porn while claiming the straight label, yet for a guy the equivalent is completely unacceptable. It's sad. Wouldn't it be nice if people didn't feel they had to live up to the expectations of a label.

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