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    Default How would you feel if you caught your partner looking at g@y p@en?

    Just wondering, more a spin-off. I personally enjoy watching girl on girl p@rn. But don't know if I'd like DP watching guys on guys.

    In fact I'd find it concerning. But whats the diff???

    Just adding that we have a lovely relationship and all is well in the bedroom!!

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    Great thread topic! One of the great unanswered mysteries of our time! I can't answer it, but I'm posting so I can see some of the responses you do get! lol.

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    I love girl/girl porn and I'm not a lesbian. So I wouldn't be concerned.

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    Id be ok with it, as long as he wasn't planning to up and leave me for a man! Haha


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    If it was only gay porn then I would be out the door. There are so many men out there who are just to afraid to come out so continue to live married lives.

    Im not into bi guys so this would be a huge problem for me.

    I would feel like I could never give him that part I could never be enough for him.
    It would kill me inside.

    I have no issue with watch any other porn.

    I just need to know I can satisfy all his needs.

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    Gay, straight, bi, doesn't matter what type for me, I would have a problem with it. Lucky for me, since I am completely uninterested in ever having another relationship, it won't be a problem

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    My immediate reaction was one of discomfort but as a pp said, as long as it it's not the only type pf porn he watches then possibly I would be ok with it. If it had more to do with him not willing to admit that he's bi/gay then I wouldn't be ok at all.

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    I am not happy with my partner watching ANY porn.

    I think I'd be more hurt with him watching gay porn though. I guess on some level, I feel I can "compete" with other women (even if there's no way I'd ever look a damn thing like them), but given I am not a man and lack a penis, I don't feel I can with a man.

    I'd also wonder he liked watching it. I think it'd be an issue for me. Like I said though, any porn is an issue for me - I can just deal with fairly vanilla porn a bit easier than anything a bit more specific.

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    meh wouldnt bother me, I would prob ask him if he was thinking he might want to try this and if he said yes we would go from there I couldnt see my hubby watching it though so hard to even imagine

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    I'd want to know if He was gay!!! If he indeed wasn't it wouldn't bother me.

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