Well, its been a big year for me, with a now 14 mth old.
But what a year (or 2 if you include the pregnancy) its been in my friendships.
Friendships just dont feel the same anymore. I feel so much pressure to still be the old me, and make an effort to catch up with everyone... but its not as easy when you have a baby to work around.
Every conversation that I start or a friend starts gets interrupted because I have to chase the baby or sort the baby out.
I feel like noone really cares about me and what Ive been up to... or really asks how I am.
Its so much easier to hang out with the other mums with bubs my age, because they just get it. BUT.. we still never get to finish a conversation.
It makes me sad, and I feel a bit lost.