My DF's exw kept his last name, even though she left him but she is still in love with him sooo I kinda get why she wont change it!
I don't get the ladies saying they'd keep it just to **** off the new wife...
Wouldn't it **** you off more that the new wife would then have the same name as your children??
DF's ex wife's last name is at the end of my give a damn list- she causes us more issues then just a name