Speechless...

**Numb** · 08-12-2011 09:28

I just found out that my husband has set up a secret email account and has placed an ad to meet other males for physical fun....

There is responses and he has replied to them....

Im shattered!

I don't know what i am going to do!

He just says it was a stupid curiosity thing.

I feel like i don't even know him.

**FloatingFairy** · 08-12-2011 09:31

Have you spoken to him about it?

**Aquillah** · 08-12-2011 09:33

Wow that would be very confronting and upsetting

I don't have any good advice except take your time and look after yourself whilst you figure out how you want to deal with it.

**Jakois** · 08-12-2011 09:33

**Numb** · 08-12-2011 09:34

Yeah, he said he never acted on it, it was a stupid curiosity thing and that he regrets it and that because we don't have regular s e x (i have pnd = no libido) that this would be a way to quit bugging me for s e x and we could all be happy...

He says he's not g a y... just stupid.

**Stiflers Mom** · 08-12-2011 09:45

Originally Posted by Numb

Yeah, he said he never acted on it, it was a stupid curiosity thing and that he regrets it and that because we don't have regular s e x (i have pnd = no libido) that this would be a way to quit bugging me for s e x and we could all be happy...

He says he's not g a y... just stupid.

Totally contradicting himself AND it's all your fault?!

He sounds like a prize. I know what I would do...

**Jurty** · 08-12-2011 09:47

Wow. That's intense. Maybe he honestly is just curious.

Sorry no advice just a big hug

**Numb** · 08-12-2011 09:48

It has been going on since august... thats what hurts the most, the amount of time and i wonder if he hadn't been caught if it would've still been going on.

I just don't know what to do.