how do you ladies cope with people asking you 'when are you having kids?' I'm getting it a lot now that DH & I have been married for a year and it's really starting to get to me. I just say 'next year probably' at the moment, but that might not be the case, and if it's not they will just keep on and on asking.
Also, one of my friends is about five months pregnant, but yesterday was the first time I've seen her since she announced it. I thought I'd be ok, but after hearing that it only took them two months of trying to conceive etc, it just makes me sad how lucky they are that they can just have a baby, keep their savings, go on holidays, pay off their house etc, whilst we will have to pour all our money into something that might not even work. How do you ladies cope with stuff like that?