I had a lap, hysto and tubes flushed yesterday. FS found stage 4 endo. He also found that my whole uterus was stuck to the front of my stomach. It seems that after my emergency c section with DD my uterus incision healed and attached itself to the front wall of my stomach. FS was able to unstick 90% of my uterus and cut out most of the endo. He couldn't see my bowel area or get my entire uterus free as he said he would need a second surgeon and to go in a different way as there was too much risk to my organs. So whilst I'm still trying to get my head around all this at least I finally have an answer for why we haven't been able to conceive a second child. Hopefully I will also have a lot of relief from all the pain and other symptoms I have been having. So glad we went to MIVF and got a second opinion. FS was pretty disgusted that my previous FS hadn't sent me to have this done a lot sooner. So based on the damage to my insides there is no point trying anything other than IVF. Really was hoping we wouldn't get to needing IVF but it seems that's where we are at once I have recovered from the surgery. So I might hang around this thread absorbing some info whilst I recover.