Thanks grooviechic35 am a bit ashamed that its taken me this long to say that to his face. I know the fight is long from over but will be worth it, esp if others see they don't have to deal with his cr*p anymore!
Bell & Bug - they are very selfish, and spiteful! Christmas is going to be a nightmare
I am not sure what to do about it and don't want to make any other decisions whilst I am so upset and over tired.
(for the record my son still has a temp of 39.3 an hour after having panadol and stripped of most clothes and playing with a cool cloth oh and he is now refusing his bottle)
I am not sure if she told him there has been a fair bit going on and she might have forgotten selling house etc.
I did limit my time with them before and my partner convinced me to try again. relationship with my mother has slightly improved but clearly my father won't change and she makes endless excuses for him