Wow! Sorry to hear you've had such a tough time! Good luck next week as well.
My only advice would be that pregnancy is a time which prepares you physically and emotionally for motherhood. This part... the judgement.... doesn't stop when you give birth. It gets worse! You're a member of this site so you would have an idea what I'm talking about. The comments section on mother related articles in the online news.. just avoid them. Try not to talk about issues like immunisation, circumsicion (?sp) or even controlled crying with anyone other than people you know who agrees with you
Fears for the health and safety of yor child!? That will be your constant companion once bubs is born. You'll learn to live with it, or else just turn off the news or change the subject, or do something to take your mind off it.
I imagine it gets worse when they get older and more independant as well.
Welcome to the wonderful world of motherhood! The best thing you've ever done in your life