I'm CD1. Hopefully this month we get to dtd on O day. Missed it last month due to food poisining and my partner was not at home the month before.
Nat I think my partner would do a sperm test as he is keen for a baby, but would also be dreading it in case it was him. I don't know how he would be if it turned out to be him. Originally he was suprised that females are not fertile for very long. A week or so ago we watched a program called Life Before Birth and he was very suprised by what sperm had to go through to find the egg. He likened it to his sperm going into a battle zone. He did say quietly though, that he now realised how healthy sperm had to be. I think he thought all of them got close to the egg but now realises it is only about a dozen or so. I was also suprised by the low number that got to the fallopian tube. He is being very good though and taking his menevit. He said he must improve his diet as well.
Yeah it's nice to have the fellas along with taking it seriously. I didn't know about the low number of sperm who make it that far either! Geez!