Hi Ive only been a sham for a few months and its nothing like I thought it was going to be I love it so much more. However Im starting to see that I have really given up alot not just because Im saving as much as I can but there is NO TIME. from the start of my day at 6ish to about 8ish Im on the go go go with washing,feeding,cleaning this and cleaning that and then play play play with bub going out to playgroups and shopping its really alot to fit in 24hours.
Before I was a sham I would get my hair done every 6 weeks if i wanted to buy some shoes or maybe a dress I would just do it. If I found stuff for bub or the kids I would just get it. Everything from going out for lunch to going away for the weekend We just did it. Now I just cant get my head around spending money on myself I only have my hair done every 12 weeks I will buy at sales and Online sales if we need something and with the amount of kids in our family for xmas its been a life saver, cook from scratch and really took a big hard look at what made me really happy its not shoes or clothes its that I can say my hubby loves me so much that he gets up every day to work his butt off so I can stay at home and will support me when I go back to uni next year.
so is there anything you have given up or not do as much for yourself ?