41hope - Sounds like you've been having a tough time. Glad your bp has gone down and that bubs is doing ok.
chicparis - Wow that is so weird that Hamptonk was only just talking about the double kidney thing days before you found out. At least it can put your mind at rest that people can live perfectly ok with double kidneys and that your bubs will be ok. I must admit I'd never heard of it either but good to know that it will all be ok.
AFM - Had my scan today and everything was great. First time I've seen bub since 6 weeks so it was amazing how everything had changed. The baby was moving around and literally bouncing up and down off the sides. My DH couldn't believe that it was moving so much and yet I was not feeling all of the movement! We held hands the whole time and everytime the Dr said 'yes that's normal' we squeezed a little tighter. I cried of course like the big wuss I am but I'm so happy that it's going ok after losing 3 bubs and 3 long years of heartbreak after heartbreak. Can't believe how much I already love this little one! We didn't find out the sex but the Dr was literally bursting to tell us and couldn't believe we didn't want to know. At one point I got really scared he was just going to blurt it out. I have a feeling it may be a boy but you just couldn't tell from the photos and videos that they gave us. Believe me, I have watched the videos about a million times already and I can't see anything down there that would let me know either way! So happy