BuffyLove- I can completely relate to you worrying about age. I am 37 and know full well how my fertility is declining, but I hear stories all the time of people able to conceive easily even after 40. My 49 yo BIL and 45 yo SIL conceived their first baby naturally after many rounds of IVF and now have a 3 month old son. I conceived #4 at 34/35 and he was my easiest conception by far.....we decided to try for #4 one month at ovulation time and BD just once and BAM I was looking at 2 lines on a HPT 2 weeks later. I think Vitex lengthens your luteal phase but don't quote me on that. Good luck next month and I hope your DH is feeling better.
tormy- How frustrating that would be to miss O, but that's great your cycle is normalising. My fingers are crossed that you will get your BFP this month.
Hokey- Sorry to hear you got another BFN but I hope your DD is psychic and you just had a late implantation. If you had spotting on 9 dpo it's possible you implanted then thus you would not get a BFP until several days later. Do your kids all want you to have another baby? Mine do and I feel pressure to fulfill their dreams. They are always talking about "If mummy has another baby....." They completely dote on our 2 yo so I imagine they would be so great with another baby in the household....I just hope it happens. Good luck for when you test again and I hope your AF stays away for another 9 months.
AFM- 5 dpo and nothing much to report. DH is off work for the next 3 weeks....YAY!