I have identical twin boys who are 4 and omg they are driving me completely insane. I love them more than life itself, but lately all they do is get on my nerves. In the past couple of weeks they have become really aggressive if they don't get their own way. They hit me, (including my tummy and i'm 30 weeks preg) i've been hit in the face. They swear at me and call me all names under the sun both at home and in public. It has gotten to the point where i am so worn out, depressed and have started questioning my own parenting ability. My partner and i do our best not to spoil them. Last week one of my boys kicked one of the daycare workers in the shins because he was told to pack up his toys. Major destruction at home as well. Cant go for five minutes without wrecking something or throwing toys around the room. They aren't like this all the time though. Sometimes they can be really sweet and want cuddles. I think they skipped the terrible twos and went straight for the fighting fours. I've been taking alot of sugary items out of their diet because it seems to trigger these episodes. I'm just really worried about whether they have a major psychological or behavioral issue. They go to daycare once a week, they get plenty of exercise and we go out to friends houses etc so i don't think its boredom. I think for the last week or two i have just gone to bed at night and cried and worried. Has anyone else been through a really rough patch with their twins and how did you get through it?