I was reading the what makes a good dad thread, and thought... I need some inspiration. I am 6 weeks out from becoming a first time mother and feel completely inadequate, I don't do the dishes before I go to
bed (I do them during the day) I don't make our bed in the morning,


Y DH pulls me up on all of these things, and it makes me feel like I'm not cut out to bee a mum...

I want to know... What do you do that makes you feel like a good parent? Is it all about a tidy house and clean kitchen like my DH thinks? Or is it about the love you can give?