I sadly have lost both fallopian tubes this year due to ectopics. IVF is the ONLY way i can ever have a baby of my own EVER AGAIN. One was in May the other was in September. I'm still struggling every day to come to terms with what we've been through. I don't want to have an IVF baby...But i HAVE to because after having my DS (who is 2.5) i now know that i do want more children and i'll do whatever it takes to get them. I'm a nurse and i look after the ladies after their EPU and i know what that procedure entails. I work with my FS/GYN and he is just asupset as i am that we have gone through what we have this year. But he is so confident it will happen if not the first then at least the second cycle.
As to the love? well, how much love do you want? my husband has stood by my side every step of the way and is just as upset and angry as i am. He has been my rock and as picked me up off the floor more times than i can count and he is not going anywhere. To him, Its not just the only way I can have a baby, but its the only way HE can have a baby. Is that not love?
I hope you can come to terms with the IVF process and accept its what you have to do...trust me, once that child is in your arms, you'll be glad you did it. Everyone deserves to have children if they want them...even the ones who fall preg easily, and the ones who others judge 'don't deserve them'