Wilson - did you guys leave more than one sample at the clinic? We are just wondering whether we should leave a couple. Yum still on the pineapple. Hopefully the bromolin will help with implantation.
Helenmac - thanks Hun. Glad to hear I am not alone. You are spot on. I find it cathartic to speak about all possibilities, so then at least I can prepare myself and perhaps then have the strength for a back up plan. After all, you don't get to this stage of your fertility life without repeated failures.
Jodie - definitely going to Roben island and booked for next Tuesday. As for Medfem, they have been flat out communicating with me lest alone recommending leaving a sample. Hence, our future treatment will definitely be with CFC. I should have known ages ago to go with them. CFC doctors have always been very responsive and willing to assist. We only went with Medfem as the donor refused to donate outside of Joburg. Medfem was also more expensive than CFC. The doctor I was supposed to see wasn't there. We took a number like at Coles and then my consultation consisted of a scan and a 5 min consult. No questions re my ART history. All the doctor could say was don't worry when DH was freaking out about when he was to give his specimen. We were both concerned about when the donor had been triggered and then the doctors acknowledgement 'oh the retrievals today'.
Then to top it off the accounts department had no record of the 40,000 ZAR transferred to them 3 weeks beforehand and told us not to worry when they couldn't find it. Thus, why we should have gone through and will definitely do any future treatment with CFC. Besides Cape Town is much nicer city.