BK: well R will probably be a good reader .
kismet: yeh why not, i'll go out on a limb then and say its a girl , im certainly a lot moodier this time...LOL .
ok omfg...........ive come to conculsion that H is just a $hit sleeper. i am SHAGGED. i ended up in tears last night on the phone to DH at 12.30am asking why why why wont this kid hardly ever sleep thru the frugging night . i lost it, i broke a phone, i slammed his bedroom door shut in my losing the plotness then felt so gulity cos he cried so rang DH and bawled for 1.2 hr. he woke at 11pm, i almost got him back to sleep within about 15mins with just a drink of water then he lost it and i could tell he wasnt going back to bed anytime soon..usuaslly if he wakes that early he will be tired so will fall asleep quick again. i was just OVER IT, im like he doesnt have a bottle and yet still wakes and STAYS awake, then im panicking thinking if i get so worked up i;ll have a m/c...DH on a 5 night stint on nightshift..just hormonal and couldnt cope then feeling bad about how i lost it. Dh finally said just give him bottle and go back to sleep wahts the point he awake for hours anyway...for once DH was actually very supportive of my rants (probably cos he says he feels the same way..he lost it a few nights earlier) i said most kids his age are sleeping thru that i know what wrong with him...anyway we agreed that we need to re do the whole sleep and settle properly including daytime behaviour (altho hard when 4 days out of 7 other ppl are looking after him) and just keep him in bed when he sooks at night, not get him up. honestly......what a tragic night .