JFB - hope you find something to buy or just enjoy window shopping. DH can suck it up!!
Alittle - I'm so sorry honey. That sounds terrible. I hope they are wrong and you just have a slow grower. If not, like jfb said, I would not think it was ectopic. thinking of you.
AFM - dumb dumb me has managed to have a big colour run in the wash, so now I have to try and get the stains out! Grrr - I don't even know what ran - all the clothes had been washed before. Except for some patterned new clothes for archie which are now ruined.