Nattie, just wanted to give you some good news and some hope to keep you positive. I got my IVF BFP 2 days ago :-)
So your embryo transfer will be today? Let me re-assure you that an embryo transfer is a very exciting process because you get to see your embryo on the screen and the procedure is similar to a pap test, no pain at all.
I will check back in about 10 days to see if you've POAS yet :-)
Oh and so you know what to expect, look at my gorgeous little embryo that is now a Bubba growing in my tummy :-)
I have everything crossed for you for success first time round!