Louhopeful, big I hope you're not feeling too bad. I've also discovered just how differently men deal with and react to the whole TTC thing and it can cause tension in the relationship men just don't understand that women who are TTC can't help but think about it A LOT and our bodies also make it hard for us to forget especially if having fertility treatment, but to be fair we can't really expect them to get it either (despite how much I'd like them to) because they don't experience it the same as us emotionally or physically.
As hard as it is I agree with pp in trying to minimize the focus (at least in DP's eyes) on TTC, and try not to talk about it as much, use BubHub to let it out, we all do it, and DP may just surprise you
Hope it works out for you.
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