DJSHEARS -It is so disheartening. I am so sorry for your loss... It is baffling as to why these things happen. When I have lost past pregnancies I was comforted to know that I was able to become pregnant and 'this,' pregnancy didnt work as the pregnancy was never going to work out well, and so it was somewhat a mixed blessing. However the next one, might... Little comfort, right now, I know. This is the most difficult part of IVF, isnt it. It is too cruel.