We're in the same circustances, met late, married at 1 year and started TTC immediately. I thought we'd have problems, just because of age and neither of us have previously pregnancies, accidental or otherwise but you still hope don't you!
I just think that our child will possible be getting it's inheritance just as it needs it most, that's the only consolation I can come up with so far! ;o)
I see the other 40's IVF thread and saw your comments on there, I hope you're feeling a bit better today lilwish, this is certainly not a journey for the faint hearted, you're amazing to have remained in such good humour after all this time. I pray with all my heart that you get your dream.
I'm really starting to worry about those other girls now, I so hope everyone is going well.