I hope it's not too late to join. I just wanted to say that we are with Derek Lok at SIVF & we have been very pleased with him. We chose Derek because one of his specialities is MF, but we have found him to be a great 'all-rounder'. He has a very calm & caring approach which put us at ease & helped us to have confidence in him & the whole process of IVF. Basically, he is a very sweet man; great bedside manner.
The whole process of miscarriage can be so devistating, especially such hard won pregnancies through IF treatment. Look after yourself & be your own best advocate in this process. If you feel like you're not 'being heard' by your FS, then you are more than within your rights to look elsewhere (I think).
Our experience with Derek is that he is very approachable, uses humour to put at us ease & was very proactive in regards to miscarriage. We achieved a BFP after our 1st ICSI, using testicular sperm, however miscarried at 6 weeks. After my BHCGs had gone down & we visited him he instantly ordered the entire barage of tests as he didn't want us to 'endure an unnecessary miscarriage. As you can probably tell, DH & I feel quite passionate about Derek: we refer to him as "The Indiana Jones of Sperm" If anyone can find testicular sperm he will
We will be doing another full stim cycle in November . Wishing everyone THE best of luck in achieving their BFP.