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    @sunnygirl79 I didn't get past the first chapter. It was very poorly written and didn't seem very realistic.
    I'm reading "the intimate adventures of a London call girl". True stories are more appealing to me.
    Otherwise, anything by Victoria Dahl is quite decent if you're into romance.
    I've also been told every second day is best. I just do it when the mood strikes which, lately, is all the time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunnygirl79 View Post
    @GemimaPuddleduck my DH is away a lot - it certainly helps his libido (which is like a teenage boy, lol). But I think I need more time with him! We rarely get date nights anymore.
    BD has just turned into such a chore for me, something on the to-do list. Which sounds terrible I know!
    I'm the same. was actually thinking about how shocking it is today and started feeling bad etc. I too find ttc a chore. like ahhh ****, it's that time we better schedule some bd but then I'm tired or really not in the mood so it's hard to get into the mood. I'm iver sex at the moment, just very little interest in it. thing is, I'm ok with that. but I feel as though I should want more.

    anyway, this all makes bd a bit more frustrating.

    should be bd-ing now but fricken exhausted and I doubt it's going to happen.

    sigh.

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    @lolly007 take a break. A couple of months ago I felt the same way. Just take a break and you will want it soon. It's okay to not want sex. Especially if you're tired, don't feel like you should want more. Listen to your body x

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    Quote Originally Posted by GemimaPuddleduck View Post
    @lolly007 take a break. A couple of months ago I felt the same way. Just take a break and you will want it soon. It's okay to not want sex. Especially if you're tired, don't feel like you should want more. Listen to your body x
    thanks hunni x

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    @lolly007 I am glad it's not just me feeling that way. Sometimes I wander if there is something wrong with me, something hormonal causing my lack of libido. But I think it's more in my head, I think too much.

    Booked an appointment for fertility acupuncture this week so will see if they can do anything to help the libido situation while they're at it!

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    @sunnygirl79 let me know how the acupuncture goes! I'm very interested.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunnygirl79 View Post
    @lolly007 I am glad it's not just me feeling that way. Sometimes I wander if there is something wrong with me, something hormonal causing my lack of libido. But I think it's more in my head, I think too much.

    Booked an appointment for fertility acupuncture this week so will see if they can do anything to help the libido situation while they're at it!
    I'd love to hear about your acupuncture appointment!!

    feeling very flat this week. it's the bd time according to fertility friend aged I'm feeling like a flat tyre. not interested at all and personally, I don't feel physically as though anything much is happening at all. thinking i might go see a doctor as this is really starting to impact my headspace and state of wellbeing. just feeling ****ty and frustrated all the time. which really isn't ideal for wanting to bd in the first place....

    have you always felt this way libido wise or is it a recent development?

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    @lolly007 that was me for the past few months until this month. Yesterday was a crappy day and peak time for bd but I wasn't feeling it. Hubby was really disappointed.
    I wish my libido would be like it was a few years ago... I do find that the more I bd, the more I want to and the reverse is also true.

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