Hi all, I am new to chatting but thought it would help to get through this tough spot. I'll tell you all abit about my situation. I got pregnant for the first time last feb and miscarried at 11 weeks. We have since been trying but no success. I suppose the frustrating thing is the first time I got pregnant first go and now I'm having all these issues that I never had before. I stopped ovulating and then was put on clomid and was ovulating but still no success in getting pregnant. I do suppose I became very obsessed after the miscarriage to get pregnant again and lost site of what I was doing which put abit of strain on the relationship. I'm at a point now where I think I should just let nature take its course....but I seem to fall back into panic mode every now and again especially as I am 38 1/2. How do I relax?