Mommatobee: That must be really hard to hear they are pregnant when not trying and have kids already. However, its fantastic news that hubby's swimmers are good Maybe if u can book in for a massage and have lots of baths etc. When trying for my first I was successful on the one month I didnt think about babys (christmas) as I was too busy enjoying myself and relaxing. Hope ur time comes asap!
Mommstobee - I understand those feelings. Although we have only been TTC for a tiny amount of time, I have wanted to have a bubba for a few years. DP and I decided to wait a bit so that we were a bit more secure (house and job) Every time someone we knew got UTD it stung!
It stung the most when a family member that had not been with their new partner for long came over to our house one night and told us they were expecting. I was crushed and I don't think I even hid it to well, normally I do try and push my feelings aside and feel happy for the new expectant parents. When they left I totally fell apart, I don't think DP knew what was going on, I just kept thinking and saying "It's not fair!" It was our choice to wait, but it still sucked!
Tons of for you! Hope you get you BFP soon
we didnt want kids before being married, and i took my sweet time there(3 yrs after we got engaged) but over a year later i just want it to happen!
it stings soo bad with my cousins... both have kids, neither one married, neither one in 100% stable realtionships(but still with the same partner as the kiddies) and while i love my god daughter to death and the other cousins 2 boys, im tired of comments from people thinking i dont want kids (there reasoning is im to selfish!) or putting on a brave face when asked when were going to have kids, response is "ohh im not sure" and with hubby not wanting people knowing were ttc its hard... my bestie knows and thats about it, its doing my head in now.. at least i got for tests tomorrow and hopefully find out the week after..
in the mean time ima hang around here
Hi there, im new to this whole thing and my boyfried and i are going to ttc. i have been off the pill for 3 weeks now and was previously on it for 2 months. My boyfriend wants to take the relaxed approach and whatever happens, happens. Thanks for posting this as this will be a good thread to loo onto
Good Luck joelsimone!! Hope your TTC journey is fun filled!
Welcome Joelsimone! Good luck
How's everyone going? Bit quite here today I'm about 7 days out from AF being due... Oh the suspense POAS yesterday and today, I couldn't help myself BFN as I suspected. It's still early days and only our first month TTC so not expecting any miracles.
Feeling tired tonight...I'll put that down to getting up at 5am and having to drive an hour to work so glad that is only a short term arrangement!
Heya Chubby! Yeah - too quiet... everyone must be out DTD...
Well... my body's all over the place post M/C. the cycle after lasted 17-18 days... This AF had no clots, amazingly no bloating or pain....
Today was Day six of AF... and yesterday I had full blown PMS!!!
I was uber creative and just p!ssed off!!! poor hubby copped it! :gonnagetit
I cleaned the enitre downstairs of our house!!! (which I haven't looked at since we lost Don)
Whereas Today - I was a hornbag!!! I was sitting at my desk and had one of those moments - like "He actually married me!!! He's MINE!!! I LOVE HIM!!!"
(I LOVE my Hubby!!!)
So I don't have a clue. O week doesn't start for a while yet... Impossible to track signs and symptoms when my hormones think AF is due soon whereas I JUST had it...)
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