Omg!!!!!

**munchkin05** · 07-06-2011 00:21

Stupid stupid me !!!!
I haven't been feeling right for the last week .. Bad migraines and just sore back .. Exact same as I had with DS...
So tonight while driving to get dinner I thought let's stop and get a ptest since im a day late ... After buying it I got in my head that I had just wasted my money it couldn't possibly be + .... well the second line came up straight away ... I drove to my friends house 5 mins away and done another one .. Again line number 2 came up straight away
What am I going to do !!!
The father and I have been seeing each other for just over a year but we are only friends with benefits ... He's got much older children and doesn't want to do kids again that's why we have just been friends for so long
I'm on the pill

which obviously didn't work
I don't know what to do
Do I keep baby ?
Do I look at abortion ?
But right now I can't afford to fork out a few hundred $$$ for one
So what do I do ?
I need the magic answer ...
Going to try get into the doc tomorrow and see how far I am ...

Can not believe I'm in this position

**Lemonhead** · 07-06-2011 00:24

Im pretty sure medicare cover some abortion costs...but if that was what you wanted to do I would be asking FOB to help pay for it.

Goodluck.

**Mummypants** · 07-06-2011 00:26

Awww Hun wanted to send you big hugs  firstly go to your gp, and talk to the father he can at least support your decision and being good friends I'd think he would want to help you regardless of choice? But don't make any decisions now get all your info together.... It's funny I believe all things happen for a reason and there's so many reasons out there! Good luck 

**SorenLorensen** · 07-06-2011 00:36

Right now its probably best to just not 'think', process this all over the next few days and work out where your at and then tell the FOB.

again.
remember you are right now in shock so please try not to over think until you are calm enough to actually think properly.

**MissPoss** · 07-06-2011 00:43

having had an unplanned pregnancy myself I know the sinking feeling. I'm sorry that you're going through this.

I have no magic answer, I wish I did. My niece recently had an unplanned pregnancy also, and she was directed to the Caroline Chisolm Society. They have pregnancy counseling. They explain on their website that they don't give medical advice re abortions if you decide to go down that path, but they do help with discussing all options. Other than that I don't know anything of their philosophy. They are just one pregnancy counseling service I've heard of, I'm sure there are many out there. Google will help track them down.

I hope you get the advice you need and are able to clearly and confidently choose the decision that is right for you.

**Crazyfamily** · 07-06-2011 07:00

i know how you are feeling. I have been in your situation. i decided to keep my baby against the wishes of the father. He has stood by me through that and loves his daughter sooo much. we are now having our 2nd child together. (we both have other kids). I decided that i was having my baby even if he walked away. Talk to the father to see how he feels but really it is your choice as to what is best for you. good luck.

**munchkin05** · 14-06-2011 00:11

Went for a ultra sound on Friday but all the could see was a pregnancy sac so she's thinking I'm to early to give exact dates ... I go back next week for another one and see what happens then and try and make my decision (hopefully the right one) once that's done

**MissPoss** · 14-06-2011 10:40

Good luck

**insanity** · 14-06-2011 11:02

I know exactly how your feeling and it is such a hard decision. Only you can make the decision, don't let other ppl talk you in to a choice your not 100% sure of

Big hugs xx