When I had DD the midwife came in to tell me about the heal prick test. She told me to call her when DD was hungry and unsettled so she could do the test then 'reward' DD with a feed! I said I wanted to feed her while she did the test and she said 'no it's best if you can reward them with something' ... Ummmm sorry lady but my baby is only 2 days old.... I will feed her when shes hungry!
Same midwife : came into the room when DD was 1 day old and my mum was visiting. She said to my mum ' now does bub NEED this cuddle or is it more for you??' ... I was sure my mum was going to bite her head off but she was quite calm! She was very anti- cuddling so I made sure when she was on duty I never put DD down! Silly cow!