I found him on FSDW and he seems fantastic! There is obviously a few bad ones on there and I did get a few messages through just after I joined that screamed sleazy but I'm really happy with the one I have found. I just hope the meeting goes well. I didn't bother with any other site because Im not interested in co parenting and definitely not interested in NI which is what a lot of sites offer. If your interested in going that way stick with it and hopefully you will find the perfect donor!