CHerished, I am so very sorry to hear of your m/c. You seem to still be very positive and deserve a medal for that - you're an inspiration really! Take care and I'm sure you'll have a nice, sticky one really soon.
DH was on menevit for a bit, but now the naturopath has him on a huge mix of all different things that are a little stronger, to give things an 'extra kick start'.
Our naturopath has taken us off caffeine, wheat, dairy. I do sneak in a couple of coffees or teas a week but for a previous coffee addict, that's not too bad!!!
Doctors can be so confusing sometimes. I think that sometimes they forget that they are dealing with real people, with real emotions, in a very sensitive situation. Not all are like that though!
Good on you for stopping smoking etc. I'm sure that this made a great difference and that things will start looking up for you soon.
Take care of yourself,