I'm at my wits end. DH and I have just had a massive fight over DD's sleeping
She refuses to sleep in her room or even on mattress in our room. She constantly asks to "snuggle with mummy". DH hates co-sleeping and I'm starting to resent DD because she is causing DH and I to fight.
I'm not fussed on co-sleeping, we do it so we all get to sleep with minimal fuss but I'd prefer her to sleep in her own room.
Every night her bedtime is between 9-9.30 it's killing us. I work full time and have uni exams in 3 weeks that I'm 2 months behind on the work, DH has been doing 12hr shifts starting at 2am. We try to get her to bed at 7.30 but she won't have a bar of it. Screams blue murder until we tell her to come out of her room.
She is a really restless sleeper which is why we hate having her in bed with us, she moves around all night in her sleep and just makes sleeping uncomfortable.
Our sex life is non-existent as she is always in our bed, I can't take it anymore I don't know what to do.
I've tried laying down with her and reading books but she wraps herself so tightly around me arm that when I try to leave she stirs and wakes up and then screams because I'm leaving the room.
Please help, I don't think our relationship can take this much longer