How do you work out what to do for your childrens birthdays. Do you have a small or large birthday party every year.
Or just at certain ages (1,5,10, 13,16,18,21 etc).
I'm trying to figure out what to do for dd. She's turning 4. It will be lady beetle themed but unsure whether I want to go all out (with games, themed decorations, entertainer etc) or just have something a little smaller. Invite her friends and have a bbq with a few home made games, food and cake.
I dont want her growing up expecting so much and being ungrateful. But I want her to celebrate it with her friends too?!?! So how do you decide and what is your choices regarding birthdays and parties etc?