I am told that I need to believe that it will happen and it will.I have been doing that but, sometimes it is hard.I have been told that it will happen for me because what goes around comes around.I help others all the time I ift them up when they are down I help them smile instead of frown.I need an embryo and that is where the problem lies. There are so few brave women who can go through embryo donation. So many women become attactched to those little ice cells. They think of them as a baby as a child. Women worry that their children will feel cheated because their mum gave away their brother/sister. They worry that any child born as a result of their donated embryos will come looking for them and will be angry for being given away or feel like they were abandoned. .................................................. .................................................. .... An embryo has the potential for life, the potential to be born, the potential to become part of a family. Children do not think of an embryo as a baby, and as long as they are never lied to and always have all thier questions answered with honesty they are very understanding. You are the one who teaches them about what you have done and why you did it. They wont think you have given away their baby sister/brother, they will think you are very special because you helped a lady to have a baby. Any child created from donated embryos in my family will be told the truth at an age appropriate time.I hope to raise the child with the love and respect that would be deserved by the donor angel. They wont feel abandoned they wont be angry. I hope that they would in fact be very gratefull for being given the chance to be born. I hope this answers any questions you may have I also hope this will help you to make the very hard decision about embryo donation. If you want to know more about my story so far I have a thread in the Egg Donor sub forum.