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    You are leading completely seperate lives- usually as man and wife you are together etc... so while at the moment your legally married thats all there is to it.
    You need to speak to him find out if he is cheating or what the hecks going on considering he didn't want to seep with you and work thign sotu together. come up with a plan as to how you can see each other more even if its a case fo YOU moving and leaving the house locked up and empty(if hes staying somewhere where he is then you can easily just live with him and it wont cost any extra) or he mov eback and find work anywhere nearby.

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    Awwe big hugs is he living with his parents atm?

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    Yeah he lives with his mum and dad, when i go there we have to sleep in seperate beds.... I would never live with them, at all no way never hahaha

    Im in the middle of typing him an email it has taken 3 days already, i just cant seem to write it without feeling bad, i know in his mind he is thinking he is doing whats right for our little family. I am really scared at how his family is going to react more than how he is going to react... I know its none of their business but he will tell them everything.

    To make matters worse i had my IVF appointment today i waited 3 years for this app now i wont be using it at all, omg im so sad TTC has been my life for the past 5 years and now its not going to happen. (crying my eyes out now)

    Just cant wait to stop feeling so yucky

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    I feel so sad for you. I hope you can find the courage to send the email and tell him how you are feeling. It could just be the thing he needs to make a change. Sometimes men are blind to these things and you just have to be direct with them about it. Hope that makes sense

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    Excuse me? You have to sleep in separate beds? You are MARRIED! What can their objection possibly be? Even super devout Christians would't do that....
    I am so sorry, they seem like they may be a large part of the problem and it is quite possible that your DH has some deep psychological issues surrounding his relationship with them.

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    Sorry i havent got advise for you, I just hope things work for you soon. Id just be telling him how I feel asap, at the end of the day having a loving marriage is worth more than a house. I wouldnt be too quick to jump on the cheating bandwagon, his mother might be more the issue than another woman.

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    I done it, i have sent the email. Wow its long and as i sat here today the words just flowed. Now to see if it has had an impact, please god let him read it word for word and not just skim over the top of it.

    Thanks again ladies you all are awesome people, you all have given me the strength and courage to be proactive with my marriage


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    Good on you, please let us know how it goes.

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    good on you hun.

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    I hope he pays attention and things work out for you.


 
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