Ugh where do i start
Im sorry if this is in the wrong place, but i need some help. My husband has moved to Brisbane to work as there is no work up here, so i am here on my own we brought our house in 08 and married in 09 we have been TTC for almost 5 years now.
He moved to Brisbane Oct last year and we had a thing that he would call me whenever he could but we would always make time to use skype everynight. for the 1st week it was ok we skyped everynight and he texted me everyday just to say how much he loved me.
We also said that he would come home atleast once a month. Since Oct last year i have seen him 2 days at Xmas and 4 days easter. So in 6 months i have seen him for 6 days. Brisbane is only 5 hours away.
He now only calls me on a tuesday, no texts no replies to my texts, no other phone calls, no return phone calls and when i get mad at him he says he was too busy working. So i told him to call me when he is sitting on the toilet then hehe.
I am so unhappy i have no family here at all and i work 6 days a week. So its hard to keep good friends. I have no one to talk to about this and i just dont know what to do. I took him to the train at 1am this morning and i didnt even cry, i dont know who this person is that was in my house anymore. He didnt touch me once FFS you would think that if you have not seen your wife since Xmas i would have to beat him off with a stick... Well i got nothing and trust me i tried..
We have our house that we brought but omg it needs so much doing on it, i have my mum and stepdad coming up next friday to help me with most of it then that will be one thing off my mind...
I think i want a divorce, i dont know this person. He kept saying he loved me but i dont know if i love him i just dont feel the connection anymore.. I knew that long distance relationships are hard but i never knew it would put the spark out altogether
We dont talk about anything for the last 4 days he just sat on the lounge watching DVD's....Boring!
I dont mind if no one replies because this is so loooong and probably boring, im just so stuck what am i going to do? I am so sick of fighting about sex. Im so confused and listening to country music doesnt help with the crying, sigh.
I feel so silly i know he cares about me, and im not getting asulted. How do you make a relationship work if your mate is 5 hours away living with his family ugh dont get me started on that one (it needs a wine not a coffee)
Maybe i should just suck it up and appreciate that my husband has moved to another town to help us make our house payments...Grrrrr im so confused.
Ok im stopping now before RSI kicks in..Thanks for reading!