Thanks. I am 37 and DH is 40. Time is not on our side unfortunately so we really dont want to wait another 6 months before starting again. We live a fair way from Brisbane and most times have to fly down for EPU and transfer so this is another factor as well. We want someone that will work with us regarding travel to make it as stress free as possible. We haven't tried a female FS yet so you never know!!! We are just sick of throwing out money away and starting to get pretty frustrated.