@Gen72 we're in a similar place with Wazza's advice being that our chances with OE is 8.9% compared to 50% with DE. The best we've got in 6 ICCI cycles is 2 fragmented expanding blasts that ended in low betas and early miscarriage at 6 weeks.
Donor recommendation Is not what you want to hear is it? And going down the O/S DE route seems overwhelming and scary. But I can see that with guidance and advice from ladies who have gone down this path and are sitting with babies in their laps today - that there is light at the end of the tunnel.
We are giving it one last shot with OE too. Who knows if either of us will regret it? Praying your last cycle ends in a bfp and a beautiful life bought Into the world.