@Ladydee I just saw your post I'm sorry I didn't reply sooner. How's the bleeding going now? Have you had a scan since you spoke to Wazza?
Hun, as hard as it is you need to back away from the dishwasher!! Do absolutely nothing!! I didn't work between 8-16 weeks cause of the bleeding. I did nothing at home. I wouldn't even take my plate over from the kitchen table, my hubby has been an absolute warrior. I saved all my energy for bed rest and caring for my two year old - and I only did that with massive amounts of help. And she's eaten her body weight in oven chicken nuggets and watched soooo much TV. But she's still been loved, cared for a nurtured. Online groceries are your friend! If anyone offers help say yes. I've always been a doing person and very self sufficient and it's hard to give into that but you are the only one who can care for your belly bub right now. You need to lie on the couch or your bed and stay there, for as long as it takes.
I'm up to almost 7 months of doing nothing now - since my bleed at 23 weeks I've curbed everything even more. It is so hard - you have my deepest empathy. If it makes you feel any better it does get easier as time goes on, you adjust to the slow pace of life and the feeling of helplessness and laziness isn't so intense. The first few weeks I found the hardest. Your hubby will get great at doing things because he has to and your toddler will learn independence beyond there years (but in a skillful way, not a sad way).
Chin up and do nothing!! And let us know how your scan goes