@Ladydee: Just sent PM..let me know if it doesn't turn upxo
Don't be embarrassed to call ok?? He would want you to do that and would be more pi$$ed off if you didn't believe me!! Call him..I promise he won't be angryxo
Yeah call. He won't mind at all and will be better for you than to be in a stressed state till monday
How did you go ladydee
I rang his personal phone.......with a red hot burning face the entire conversation!!!!!! He was fine about it and was driving to a family members house. He told me I can't go back to work for the next few weeks so back to strict bed rest. He has upped a couple of things.....told me to have a stiff scotch too?!! He highly suggested I should go for a scan with my Ob or A&E today but I know there's nothing else they can do than what I'm already doing......minus the stupid stupid idea of cooking dinner and loading up the dishwasher. I know the scan would be purely for reassurance but I've rang our closest private hospital about this a couple of weeks ago when it all started and it was going to cost anywhere up to $500 which, if this is going to end like the last 4 pregnancies then I'd rather save that for another FET We've paid a freak'n fortune for this bub/cycle, I'm spending hundreds and hundreds at the chemist and compounding chemist every single week.
I've grown tougher with all of the sh!t that's happened this year.....I can wait two more days to just get a scan with my Ob which'll only be around $160 and frankly, I'd rather him tell me bad news than a stranger. If my pain gets worse, then we'll head straight into A&E, I know what the main event of a natural m/c feels like and I'm not having those type of contractions. Trying very very hard to stay very "what will be, will be" but, I'm just so over how hard this all has to be with zero guarantee that we won't end up (once again) back at square one at any moment.
Glad you called and so understand where you are coming from. Cmon little one stay put..
@Ladydee: Am so glad you called him Luv And I understand about waiting until Monday too. Don't be too hard on yourself ok?? You're not the first Preggo woman to do a little bit too much too soon and the main thing is you know your limits now
LOFL the "stiff scotch" recommendation. He tells a lot of his Ladies to do that. Told me to do that prior to my endo scratch/lipoidal flush Yep and I understand the $ too. We spent a $hitload out of pocket to get our bub, but it was worth every cent and I know you'll feel the same too once you've got your bub in your arms We all do
Good plan about heading into the A@E if things turn pear shaped. Yes Luv, sadly you do know what the sign are But so far, so good and you can only take it day by day at the moment. I'm keeping my and sending loads of your way that your little Bean stays put!!!
Will slink back off to the sidelines for now but know I'll be keeping my eye out for your posts and cheering you on
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Ladydee - I'm glad you called him too. I completely understand your logic. Rest up and see what the scan shows. Bleeding can be pretty normal for some ladies throughout pregnancy, and your's is moderate so hopefully just some peripheral bleeding (there is a whole lot of stuff around but outside of bub that can cause harmless bleeding). Looking forward to your scan to see one cheeky monkey.
Not sure if you remember me from an old thread late 2013 injections support. Today I thought I would go through my old posts reminding me of what I went through etc and thought I would track down the others to see if you ladies were lucky. Looks like you have been having a rough time? And you are seeing wazza! He is the best. Hoping all the best for you luv and hope you are ok x
Heyside and I are still on the TTC band-wagon but have had polar opposite obstacles to overcome. I moved onto IVF this year but I spent all of 2013 chasing that elusive BFP with OI/IUI and then all of this year pregnant or miscarrying. This is my 5th pregnancy in a row during this last year and I'm doing my very best to hang onto it. I either didn't know or I forgot that you were a Wazza patient.....actually, I don't think I even knew who he was back then! I'm 9 weeks tomorrow so here's hoping this one is our take home bubba Thank you so much for your well wishes and I really hope life is going great guns for you too xoxoxo
@milliegirl, @BlondeinBrisvegas, @lineyb73 and everyone else who has given advice or encouragement, I can't tell you how much it means to not feel so alone and just the fact that you girls "get" where I'm coming from and feeling. A million thanks Xxx
Who else is cycling?? Where are you ladies up to? @LCLowry, how are you doing? @mummymaybe, are you cycling again?
Last edited by Ladydee; 12-01-2015 at 05:19.
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