Flicker - that's what you need to do to bring the peeps in...set up the nursery. Murphy's law, they will be in quick enough if you do that. Temping has been ok and I actually think I o'd on day 16 not 12 so missed the boat. I usually get up to go to the loo but 3 times before I fall asleep. The obgyn said try for another 3 months then we can either go IVF or just keep trying. Scary as I never thought we would get to that. We were prepared before DD to go IVF and after 2 FS we fell naturally so this time, money wise, it's harder, we have DD and the threat of being means tested for CCR sucks.... will wait n see.