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    @LoCo go easy on yourself. 3 is a challenging age. Forgive yourself and move on. Tomorrow is another day. After all what kind of mum and role model should you be? Not a perfect mum (because who can live up to that), but one that makes mistakes, is human and sometimes gets overwhelmed and tired and reacts when pushed to their limits. It's really the perfect opportunity to show your dd how it's done. Apologise to your dd, explain how you were feeling and how you wish you would've handled it and then let it go and try again tomorrow. Bad mums don't worry bout this stuff... Tired, overwhelmed good mums do Xxx

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    Hugs loco. I have been there. We all have bad days/weeks.
    We are human we make mistakes and we teach our kids that making mistakes is ok. That is how we learn. You are teaching her how to be a great mum. That even when you fall and make a mistake, you get up dust off, say sorry and move forward.

    You are a good mum you just had a bad day and made a mistake.
    Hugs. Hugs. Hugs.

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    @LoCo - if we handled them well they wouldn't be called bad days. Mummy guilt is the worst. The other night when I was exhausted and there was nothing wrong with DS but he was awake and squawked every time I left the nursery I was feeling ragey, so I picked up my pillow and slammed it down really hard on my bed. It scared the cr@p out of him and he cried. I felt awful. Last week he wouldn't sleep so I just got him back up. I was sitting on the floor and he bit my breast really hard. I pushed him away gently and said 'no', but he was in his grobag so when I pushed him he fell backwards and bumped his head. God I felt worse than awful. But he still loves me.

    Today is a brand new day x

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    Just thought I would share this pic in here...just to remind us all that we may feel like the worst mum sometimes but to our kiddies we are still the light of their lives mistakes and all. Happy Mother's day xoxo

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    Cool idea! I will read my favorite book today, Moomintrolls! SO excited, hope my kids will like it

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    Subscribing to remind myself that I'm not the only one who feels guilty for my feelings sometimes.

    Haven't had more than a 2 hour block of sleep in months, really makes it hard to be patient at times & find myself being very angry and snappy with DH & DD then feeling absolutely awful afterwards

    Love them both to bits but sometimes miss pre-parenthood & the lack of responsibility!

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    Delete I want to try forget today 😣
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