I'm in exactly the same situation as you guys, DD1 is 19 months and DD2 is 10 weeks old. Boy it gets so hard looking after both of them. DD2 wants to be held the whole time and DD1 just wants my attention. Thank god DD1 goes to daycare three days a week, even though I feel really guilty dropping her off those three days. But the good thing is that she loves going to daycare because I think she gets bored at home.