My mum is gay. She isn't butch by any means, but she isn't girly either. Daggy is more the word. I don't think this girl's appearance and hygiene have anything to do with her mother being gay, more just laziness. What I find offensive about this, sorry, is that if her parents were straight no one would blame their sexuality, but because her mum is gay that could be the reason. Gay people are exactly the same as straight people. Some are good parents, some are crap. Just because they sleep with the same sex doesn't make their brains different.