Hi Kitty I too got annoyed when he didn't get depressed when my AF arrived. It's funny though I when we spoke about iVF he finally admitted that the reason he was pushing for iVF was so I didn't get so upset each month! Wish he had of just said that at the start. I'm going to stay at a girlfriends on Friday night and go out for dinner. I think i'll just dump it all on her, poor thing, but at least us girls don't mind so much! Thanks for the advice i'll definitely try just letting him be and not try to talk about it every 5 minutes!
toshe Congratulations it's so nice to hear when others have sucess! I had my lap at Fertility GC and found they were fine, very competent. I'm just so impressed with Dr Ong I thought I had to try him first. I think his compassion is what I need so much right now.
teags We are ok. DH is fine, he thinks of the positives that most of the time they can find some sperm. I'm too much of a realist/pesimest I can't help but think of the small percent that they don't! A fault I am trying to overcome! I just like to have myself prepared for the worst so that i am happy if we get good results but ready if we get bad. I def highly recommend Dr Ong if your FET doesn't work. He called me yesterday to dicuss our case and even though i'm not a patient yet, he is writting me up some bloods to do this week so that when I do get to see him that part is already done.
Good luck with your FET though. As great as he is, i really hope you don't get to go see him cause you are already UTD!