Just so everybody knows!!!!!!

**Jesska** · 10-02-2011 18:01

First of all, I wont be making this decision on my own. I'll be talking to my husband about this and make sure he is happy with my decision!! I have had one unplanned pregnancy my first born was very unplanned and i know how much joy kids can bring to our lives... I have 3 babies!!! I love them all to bits, I never ever thought I would ever consider to have an abortion but I really do not think that I can cope with another baby, no way... we will have to buy a new car, get a bigger house, and we just cannot do that on apprentice wages, we barely get by as it is with 3 kids!!!!!!
I dont want to have the baby, but i will not go through with my decision without talking to my husband first. ILl bring him to my doctors appointment and try to make him understand what i am feeling. i just cannot do it. But we will see what the tests results come back as, I might change my mind I might not. but at this point I dont want another baby.

**mummyof9kids** · 10-02-2011 18:04

Good luck with what ever you decide

**~Danni~** · 10-02-2011 18:04

Just some huge hugs

I had a look at your other thread earlier today

**BlissedOut** · 10-02-2011 18:21

All the best with this, you guys are in my thoughts.

Please don't take my posts in the other thread to be saying you wouldn't. I was more so addressing the other posters in the thread.

I can't even imagine being in your shoes right now.

**GabberQueeN83** · 10-02-2011 18:28

Good luck with eveything this must be so hard for you all

**MrsShe** · 10-02-2011 18:28

Best of luck with your decision jess. Big hugs, if you ever need to talk you I'll be there

**MamaC** · 10-02-2011 18:29

Thinking of you Jesska during this time and hope it works out for you and your family

**Piffle** · 10-02-2011 18:31

Just wanted to let you know a patient of mine fell pregnant with her and her husband's 4th child unexpectedly. She felt the same as you and after much heartache they decided to have a termination. I've seen her again since then and she is very at peace with their decision. All the best.

**sammyplus3** · 10-02-2011 18:38

is all i have and think some of the comments in other thread were totally uncalled for good luck hun

**The Fox** · 10-02-2011 18:56

I hope that you can both a reach a decision that you can live with. Like I said in the other thread, its your life and your the one who has to live with it so you do whats right for you and your family.
Also im sorry that you felt like you had to create another thread to clarify what you were doing, its no one else business and im sorry people made you feel like you were doing something wrong when you stated all along that you were going to discuss it with your husband. best of luck Jesska and feel free to PM if you need someone to talk to