TB I rarely venture out of the IVF section of this forum as the rest of it 'scares' me.
I was 36 wks pg with my IVF baby after a MC, and BM sent the kids over for their visit- DSD gets in the car coughing and says "oh I have SWINE FLU" I nearly jumped out the car to go beat up BM
She sent them over when they had chicken pox- poor dsd had them everywhere (I mean everywhere) and she hadn't been to a doctor.
DSS currently has a sore on his leg, BM says it's a white tail spider bite...
One rule I can think of is don't ever ever *think* that you love your children more than the SK's.
Those people who say they love them all the same are either better people than me or liars. I love them, but no matter what anyone says, it's not the same. It just isn't.