this stupid one rings us up oh i dnt have money for nappies umm hello u just got paid hoe did u not get nappies and b4 me and dh got together i used to send time with her coz i felt sorry for her and he'd give her say $100 and shed go buy credit and takeaway and clothes for herself but no one cent went on the kids and i used to get so bloody mad coz i had been best mates with dh snice year 3 and then she sooks and complans her 3 year old cos to much in nappies yet wnt toilet train her when we see her which is often atm coz she ha control of dh with seeing his kids while we wait for the bloody courts to hurry up shes fine going to the toilet at our house yet we get her in nappies and they must have been left on the kids for hours coz its comming out the sides they smeel so bad when i 1st fell pregnant i could have them near me til they had been bathed they made me ill just the smell i cnt believe some people can live like that and not even care theres anther thing we took the kids to a party about 5 weeks ago we said please have them bathed and dressed we were picking them up and going striaght to the party she goes well i cnt i dnt have clothes for them are you FNing kidding me u take all opur bloody clothes and NEVER give them back so we are forever buying clothes to replace the ones u take.
Yep i can relate, BM has never had full custody of my 3 stepkids, shes never paid a cent in child support, my DF and i work 3 jobs between us to help raise them and our own DD, we too have one on the way, they visit her one night a fortnight! That was HER request!! Cant even have them for the entire school holidays, it has to be half half, then she crys victim to her friends by saying we have stolen them from her! She is such a pathological liar! It drives me nuts that she constantly lies all the time, SS just turned 12 on Tuesday, still no present for him, or even as much as a phone call, but yet it sickens me when people shes manipulated believe that we stole her children from her and we've made life sooooo difficult for her!! Boo hoo shes the one that had multiple affairs including having one with her own stepdad!!! Im so sick of being blamed for everything that goes wrong in her life, shes now even trying to get in contact with DF family!! Shes never even liked them let alone wanted to catch up with them, i mean what the?? Why would she start this now, seriously this has been going on for nearly 8 years!!!!! Why cant she just live her own life and stop meddling in ours! Rule no. ...... Dont ever think for a second that BM will eventually move on with her life, her only priority is to make your lives as miserable as humanly possible, even at the expence of her own children, she will use them as leverage to get whatever she can out of you, whether it be by no child support, not seeing them for a whole year, complain that your a b*tch and home wrecker etc.. But yet have absolutley no problems whatsoever in having you raise her children for her, she can be as hypocritical as she likes, but dont let it get under your skin, its exactly what she wants, just keep on smiling coz at the end of the day u will never be as pathetic as she is
Awwwww hugs! That sucks!
Is it selfish of me to sometimes think hey she has four other kids plus sd so why can't sd live with us when we only have one?
Yeah I do get it's selfish but bm seems to consider sd's brothers and sisters at that house are more important than the sister she has at ours
Last edited by august; 31-10-2011 at 18:54.
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