Man I so feel like that. Step daughter is over here for the holidays and even though we always send back stuff for step daughters other brothers and sisters amd mum and step daf the same never gets done not even a happy birthday for her sister here. Also have felt like I have to watch what I say to step daughter as BM will turn everything I say around. When step daughter told me she isn't allowed to tell us stuff I got annoyed as we aren't allowed anything in our house to be a secret but BM can. Also she Is moving towns and told other kids dad but couldn't tell step daughters dad which I fin ridiculous.